… fearful. How do I know if I am being stalked? Does this person: follow you or watch you? approach you at inappropriate times? confront you either alone or in public? show up at your work or home? make unwanted telephone calls or text you? threaten you? send you unwanted letters? give you unwanted or threatening gifts? send you unwanted e-mail? damage your property? What do I do if I am a victim of stalking? Keep track of everything that happens with the person who is stalking you. Write down everything that happens. Include dates, times, locations and any exact words …