… Violence … Relationship Violence … What is it? If a person is using relationship violence against someone, it means that they have a pattern of intimidating, threatening, or actually physically, emotionally, or sexually abusing another … and/or who you see. Your partner has hit, shoved, grabbed, slapped, pushed or kicked you. Even if you said yes to ONLY ONE of the above behaviors, but it has happened with any frequency, this is a sign that you may be in danger. Do not wait …