… What is Stalking? A person is being stalked when someone does something unwanted that causes the victim to feel threatened and/or fearful. How do I know if I am being stalked? Does this person: follow you or watch you? approach you at inappropriate … that happens with the person who is stalking you. Write down everything that happens. Include dates, times, locations and any exact words that you can remember. Keep any letters, notes gifts or other objects sent to you by the stalker. If you …