… Relationship Violence … Relationship Violence … What is it? If a person is using relationship violence against someone, it means that they have a pattern of intimidating, threatening, or … person. They do this in order to maintain power and control over their partner. Relationship violence can also occur between same-gender partners. Is my partner using relationship violence against me? Have you experienced or observed any of the following: You are afraid to disagree with your partner. Your partner's temper scares you. Your partner tries to cut you off from friends and family. Your partner …