… … Relationship Violence … What is it? If a person is using relationship violence against someone, it means that they have a pattern of intimidating, threatening, or actually physically, emotionally, or sexually abusing another person. They do … Relationship violence can also occur between same-gender partners. Is my partner using relationship violence against me? Have you experienced or observed any of the following: You are afraid to disagree with your partner. Your partner's temper … off from friends and family. Your partner has threatened to commit suicide if you leave. Your partner is very jealous. You have been afraid to say no to sex. Your partner becomes violent after drinking. Your partner tries to control the way you …